The Gatherings

"Time it is not about the length, it is about how it is spent"

After our team year end dinner at Sri Hartamas today, I gave CC, NN and AB a ride home and went up to hangout at CC's place. Cozy as the place, we started chit chating and sharing, cuddling in big cushions on nice red sofas.

We talked about a lot of things about life, relationships, personal goals and problems. I found myself encouraged by and supporting the others. The conversations were sincere and not skin deep. The best is there were no bitchiness...pulling each others tails or proving who's right or wrong. Instead, it is filled with sense of constructive support. There were laughter mixed with deep thoughts. Unfortunately, these conversations come rare nowadays.

At one time the gals shared about "How gals are turned off by men's behaviour". Eating with mouth close, no dirty long fingernails, no nosepicking in public, burping and basically personal hygines. Things I am well aware of but never really pay attention to. It is right that it percepts how a person is brought up and in someway how a person is deep inside.
A man who takes care of his behaviour in front of a lady respects the lady and definitely know how to takes care of himself and others...
Points to ponder...

The gathering at CC's place was enjoyable, a quick visit turns to few hours of non stop conversations. Time and chance have brought us wonderful moments. A great Christmas gift. :)